Halfway down the stairs the morning after your first run, you might stop. Both thighs ache. The kettle feels a long way off.
That ache is almost certainly fine. The distinction is not about severity. It is about where it hurts and what it does.
What normal soreness is

Delayed onset muscle soreness, or DOMS, is what most beginners are dealing with. It typically peaks 24 to 48 hours after exercise and resolves on its own within a few days, according to NHS guidance. It is a sign your muscles are adapting to something they have not done before.
DOMS is diffuse, delayed, and dull. It spreads across a whole muscle rather than concentrating at one point. You might feel it across your whole calf, both thighs, or your glutes. It aches, but no single spot stands out as clearly worse than the tissue around it.
What a warning sign feels like
A warning sign tends to be pinpoint. Press your finger slowly along the painful area. If you find one spot that is clearly more tender than the tissue around it, that is different from general muscle fatigue.
The other pattern to watch is pain that arrived during the run, not the day after. If something sharpened while you were out, rather than appearing the next morning, pay attention.
The practical check is two questions: is the pain diffuse or pinpoint? Did it come on during the run, or the morning after?
Diffuse and delayed is almost always DOMS. Pinpoint, or mid-run onset, warrants a rest day and a closer look.
Why bone pain is different

Muscle soreness can appear and resolve within days. Bone remodels over weeks. That gap matters for beginners adding new load.
The most common stress fracture sites in recreational runners are the shin, the small bones of the foot, and the hip. Pinpoint tenderness directly over any of those bones is a signal to stop running, not to run easier and see what happens.
Rest, and if the tenderness does not settle within a few days, speak to your GP or a physiotherapist. This is general information, not medical advice.
After 50, recovery takes longer than it did at 30. That is ordinary physiology, and it applies to bone as much as muscle.
When to rest and when to see your GP
If soreness is diffuse and appeared the next day, take a rest day. A gentle short walk usually helps. It should ease within two to three days.
If the pain came on during your run, or if it is pinpoint and over a bone, stop and rest for several days. Most minor irritations settle with rest.
Four to five days with no improvement, or pain that returns the moment you start again, means a GP visit. That is the practical threshold. Not four weeks of hoping it will settle.
How to have less of it
Gradual progression is the most reliable approach. The widely used rule of thumb is to add no more than ten per cent to your total weekly running from one week to the next.
This gives muscles, tendons, and bone time to adapt before the next increase.
For beginners, the recommended structure is walk/run intervals. One to two minutes of running followed by walking distributes the impact across the session better than continuous running. Two or three sessions per week with rest days between is more effective than running daily.
Adaptation happens during rest. That is not a consolation. It is how the physiology works.
If you want to support recovery between sessions, you can compare foam rollers and recovery tools on Amazon UK. A foam roller can ease muscle tension after a run, though rest itself does more.